For some period of my adulthood, I used to think that I need a partner to experience sexual ecstasy. This unfounded myth is common amongst the majority of men and women. This is one of the common reason for sexual dissatisfaction and frustration.This myth was shattered for good when I had an opportunity to attend […]
Continue readingWhen I was 14 or 15 years old, my father told me a secret of a happy family – a HAPPY WOMAN. A couple of years later, when I embraced a more body-centered approach of lovemaking, his statement made profound sense to me.When both man and woman drops their goal-orientedness in lovemaking and connect inwards, […]
Continue readingAs a child as well as an adult, I have a great communication with my mother. During early days of my adultery, she used to tell me that love and lovemaking has a great healing power. I didn’t pay much attention to her message then. However, when I started practicing tantric lifestyle as well body-centered […]
Continue readingHuman genitals are born intelligent!Are you laughing aloud? When I heard it for the first time, I had that reaction.But it’s true that our genitals do possess intelligence. This intelligence is at the heart of tantric sex. We’re designed for pleasure and we don’t have to work as hard to achieve it as we do […]
Continue readingOne of the common concern that men always have is that related to the erection of the penis during lovemaking. In past few decades, I had an opportunity to read ancient Indian literature that discusses human sexuality and meet guru’s who have experienced and researched various aspects of sexuality. Soon, I learned that erection of […]
Continue readingBefore listening to OSHO, I had this commonly conceived view that during lovemaking a man MUST ejaculate. Rather I understood it as a sign of manliness. Thus, OSHO’s statement that “Sex is an opportunity for higher transformation of life energy” did not make much sense to me.However, once I started the body centered practice of […]
Continue readingThere is only but one temple in the universe that we human beings can experience, and that is the human body. This human body is born sensual and can experience multi-sensory pleasures. However, we have neglected taking care of sensuality aspects of our body. This is happening to billions across the globe, and hence having […]
Continue readingStress is one of the common killers of sex. During the early years of my sex life, I have experienced impacts of such a stress. There are several reasons such as fear of failure, performance pressure, anxiety, goal-orientedness and simply not being within your own self, and not listening to your own body signals that […]
Continue readingDuring the early years of my sex life, I was more focused or rather over-attentive towards my partner. I was neglecting myself, my inner happenings, inner sensations. It was like a performance to please and impress the other.However, this all changed once I was introduced to this new body-centered approach of making love. There was […]
Continue readingThere is a lot that is being discussed about Tantra. There are lots of misconceptions about tantra.Many consider this as a way of achieving transcendence. Such an understanding creates unwanted and uncalled for expectations from tantric way of living.My own understanding is that Tantra is a way of living. It is a way wherein you […]
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